September 19, 2008

Mind 13,000 Feet Over Matter

Thanks to the wonders of Facebook, I am friends with Jose’ Micallef from Malta. (You can be my friend on Facebook too, my profile page is here.)

This morning I was looking at some amazing photos that Jose’ has on Facebook.  As soon as I saw them, I realized that I had to write a blog post about them, so I dropped him a note to ask if I could use them. He wrote back and told me that I was welcome to use the photos.  He also told me that there was a story behind them – and what a story it is!  So today, I will bring you Jose’s story.  Then, in my next blog entry,  I will give you the post that I was originally inspired to write when I saw these fantastic photos.

Here are the photos (Jose’ is the one in the white t-shirt) – Click on each one to see the larger photo):

And here’s the story behind them, as told by Jose’:

I was scared of heights. A couple of years ago the German girlfriend I had at the time took me sight seeing on top of Cologne cathedral. Going up the never ending stairs did not make me realize how high we were going as we had no windows around us. When we got to the top and realized the height, I simply froze, got hold of the wall behind me and was shaking with panic. Well it took her and some other tourist around 45 minutes to get me down. I went down the steps facing the wall and my girlfriend talking me about silly stuff to deviate my frightening thoughts.

Last year I started working on myself and getting my life in shape. One of the things I had to work on was the fear of heights. I was going to be in Hawaii for a conference regarding personal development and I decided to take action to defeat this fear of heights. I booked a skydive 5 weeks before the jump and from that day I created a mind movie where I saw myself boarding the plane with a smile and no fear and also watched myself jump off the aircraft with a big smile and screaming with joy having the time of my life. I went through this mind movie at least once a day till the jump and while doing so I said aloud to myself “I am going to skydive and am going to have fun”. Well, I jumped and it was a live performance of my mind movie and did not feel any fear for not even a fraction of a second. Now I know that with the right mind-set I can achieve what I want.

Do I have some powerful friends, or what?

Now I want you to consider doing three simple things:

1. Use the comments section below to tell us how you’ve overcome fears.

2. Forward this to any of your friends who are having difficulty facing their fears.

3. Join Jose’ and I on Facebook!

ENJOY NOW!


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3 Comments »

  1. How wonderful to see my friend Jose’ and my friend Patrick on the same site! I had no idea you guys knew each other.

    Jose’s story is a powerful one. I had the pleasure of meeting him face-to-face for the first time in Hawaii after his sky-dive. What an incredible fellow — his story of how he created a “life without limits” is an amazing one everyone deserves to hear.

    Patrick, thanks for the reminder that we can create whatever we want. I appreciate you!

    Tony Rush

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    Hey Tony! Good to hear from you! I saw the photo of you and Jose’ in Hawaii – that’s a lot of power in one photo!
    -Patrick

    Comment by Tony Rush »

  2. To master the mind will always be one of humankinds final frontiers. To control and in to some extent over come fear in all its disguises and manifestations is part of our common journey. I always like to approach it with the FEAR acronym, False Evidence Appearing Real ! To share a personal anecdote to help us over come it is a great service to all. Well done Jose and Patrick !

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    Victor: Thanks for reminding us of the FEAR acronym – I really like that one!
    -Patrick

    Comment by Victor Sinclair (subscribed to comments) »

  3. Thanks for inspiring me to be better. I am in the process of identifying my limiting fears. Every single fear limits one in some way.I hope I can write soon about overcoming one of my urgent ones. After an accident I have been terrified of driving.

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    Hi Valerie – You’re very courageous to be taking on your fears! Good for you! The trick is to get to our fears before they become an entrenched part of our personal story. And always remember – you’re not in this alone! Let me know if I can help.
    -Patrick

    Comment by Valerie Lopez »

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