February 13, 2008

I Love You! (No wait, that’s tomorrow!)

Written By Patrick Mathieu — Category: Life Is Too Short, Regret-Free Living, Fearless Living, Mindful Moment @ 11:42 am

Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day. The day where we go all out to celebrate our love for one another. Love will fill the air!

But don’t worry, on February 15th, we can all go back to normal!

I wouldn’t call myself jaded, but I’m always perplexed by our society’s need to set aside a special day to honor things that we should be constantly honoring.

  • Do you only express your love on February 14th?
  • Do you only cherish your marriage on your anniversary?
  • Do you only celebrate someone’s life on their birthday?
  • Do you only honor your mother on Mother’s Day? Your father on Father’s Day?

When we set aside these days, it can lead us to take things for granted the other 364 days of the year. This sort of thinking is exactly why so many people end up a funerals saying: “If only I had told them how much they meant to me.”

Years ago I wrote an article where I suggested that we replace the cliché “Carpe Diem” (Seize the day) with “Celebre Diem” or Celebrate the Day!

So go ahead and buy the chocolates and flowers tomorrow. But if you really want to show them how much they mean to you… do it next week too!

ENJOY NOW!


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